It didn't surprise me. I heard from none of Adam's family after the surgery. I wanted to confront them about it, but failed. What can I say? These are people who haven't taken a single picture of me in the ten years Adam and I have been together. They have never said "you're good for him" or anything remotely close. Why would I expect support from a source that is not forthcoming?
They did say I look good. They were wrong. I look damn good.