Saint Orres doesn’t loom or hunker. It regards. Highway One, the Pacific Ocean, cars wending their way along the rise, brush tattooing the slope on which it sits. In California, brush is a fuck-you to the environment, a fount of fire. Yet you see it everywhere. Such is the arrogance of this state.
Wednesday, April 24, 2024
Friday, April 19, 2024
The most personal listing copy
I've been a real-estate writer throughout my career, but writing my mother's copy was something else.
Monday, April 15, 2024
Sunday, April 14, 2024
Posted this on FB eons ago
Making your mark on the world is hard. If it were easy, everybody would do it. But it's not. It takes patience, it takes commitment, and it comes with plenty of failure along the way. The real test is not whether you avoid this failure, because you won't. it's whether you let it harden or shame you into inaction, or whether you learn from it; whether you choose to persevere. - Barack Obama
Truth
You know how you always think you're so fat, then you see pics of yourself that show you you're not so bad? It's like that.
Friday, April 12, 2024
Wednesday, April 10, 2024
Tuesday, April 9, 2024
Vegas
It was fun. It was tiring. It was a LOT of family time. I'm glad we did it, but I'm also glad we came back.
Tuesday, March 19, 2024
Tuesday, March 12, 2024
From CONFLAGRATION
So much of parenthood is just looking. We watch our creations do what our creations will do. Our little Frankensteins, our babies. Arise, my creation. Live. I watched his chest rise and fall as I had done so many nights before when he was younger, particularly when he was just a newborn. You run the risk of losing them then. It gets a little less dicey as they get older, but then again, does it?
Does it?
Sunday, March 10, 2024
Tuesday, March 5, 2024
Monday, March 4, 2024
Friday, March 1, 2024
Thursday, February 29, 2024
I played this for my dying mother
Ain't much an old country boy like me can't hack
It's early to rise, early in the sack
I thank God I'm a country boy
A raisin' me a family and workin' on the farm
My days are all filled with an easy country charm
Thank God I'm a country boy
When the sun's comin' up I got cakes on the griddle
And life ain't nothin' but a funny funny riddle
Thank God I'm a country boy
I pull out my fiddle and I rosin up the bow
The kids are asleep so I keep it kinda low
Thank God I'm a country boy
But the Lord and my wife wouldn't take it very good
So I fiddle when I can and I work when I should
Thank God I'm a country boy
When the sun's comin' up I got cakes on the griddle
Life ain't nothin' but a funny funny riddle
Thank God I'm a country boy, woo
I never was one of them money hungry fools
I'd rather have my fiddle and my farmin' tools
Thank God I'm a country boy
A lotta sad people thinkin' that's a mighty keen
Well, son, let me tell ya now exactly what I mean
I thank God I'm a country boy
When the sun's comin' up I got cakes on the griddle
And life ain't nothin' but a funny funny riddle
Thank God I'm a country boy
And he took me by the hand, held me close to his side
Said, "live a good life, play my fiddle with pride
And thank God you're a country boy"
Taught me how to work to play a tune on the fiddle
He taught me how to love and how to give just a little
And thank God I'm a country boy
When the sun's comin' up I got cakes on the griddle
Life ain't nothin' but a funny funny riddle
Woo, thank God I'm a country boy, yes
Monday, February 26, 2024
Nope, thanks for asking
My in-laws didn't contact me when my book was published. Or when my mother died. Or when my dog died. The last time I saw my mother-in-law, Adam had to ask her to say something. And what did she say? "Was it weird being in San Diego without your mom?" Why, no, Anita. It felt great.
If you knew I was going through shit and you just sat by and did nothing, then you're an asshole too and I have nothing to say to you either.
Friday, February 16, 2024
Sunday, February 4, 2024
Saturday, February 3, 2024
Queensryche, "Silent Lucidity"
Hush now, don't you cry
You're lying safe in bed
It was all a bad dream spinning in your head
Of someone close to you leaving the game of life
So here it is, another chance
Wide awake you face the day, your dream is over
Or has it just begun?
A doorway that I run through in the night
Relax child, you were there
But only didn't realize and you were scared
To face your fears, retrace the years
And ride the whims of your mind
Commanding in another world
Suddenly you hear and see this magic new dimension
(I) am gonna help you see it through
(I) will protect you in the night
(I) am smiling next to you, in silent lucidity
Visualize your dream, record it in the present tense
Put it into a permanent form
If you persist in your efforts, you can achieve dream control
How's that then, better?
Dream control, dream control
Help me
You won't rely on open eyes to see
The walls you built within
Come tumbling down, and a new world will begin
You're safe from the pain in the dream domain
A soul set free to fly
A round trip journey in your head
Master of illusion, can you realize
Your dream's alive, you can be the guide but
(I) am gonna help you see it through
(I) will protect you in the night
(I) I'm smiling next to you
Thursday, February 1, 2024
From CONFLAGRATION
There’s that old resentment. I don’t know if I feel chained in marriage or around Ross in particular, but sometimes I feel as though he has his claws in me and I can’t escape. It’s weird – he’s such an easygoing person on the surface, but can be so intense at heart. Maybe it’s me that’s intense – intense in the sense of not wanting to be tied down. Maybe that’s not what I ever wanted.
What would have happened if I’d never gotten married?
Tuesday, January 30, 2024
Saturday, January 27, 2024
Tuesday, January 23, 2024
San Diego
My brother and I were going through my mom's stuff. We came upon her purse. Her wallet, her perfume, vaccine literature that was probably never read and now never would be. "This is the tough part," he said. He was right.
Friday, January 5, 2024
Thursday, January 4, 2024
The first kiss
Man, we made out so hard it hurt. If I didn't know I would marry him then, I should have.