I always thought I'd found out Adam got married by looking for him online. I imagined finding out in some way or another and feeling that electric buzz of shock and sadness. I'm sometimes surprised it didn't end up that way.

It turned out better than I'd expected, obviously. But I'm just saying. Maybe I'd find the Flickr pictures of his honeymoon or stumble across his updated Facebook status. Sometimes putting your foot down and telling someone what you want has the best results.