Pain is different from suffering.
Yeah?
Yeah. That's what I learned last night. Pain is part of life. Suffering is our reaction to it.
So what's pain?
Pain is the difficulty.
And suffering?
Everything that's going on right now.

I'm stoked about getting married. I love Adam more than I can say. I don't mistake our marriage for the wedding, or vice versa. The marriage is going to be stellar. Planning the wedding has sucked royally.